One thing I can always be thankful that I have learnt from being single is that I know I can be alone.
It is an option.
I don’t need to be someone’s other half in order to be (or feel) whole.
I am whole. Already.
You too are whole. You don’t need me to reach completion.
Personal space is something that plays a pivotal role in the success rate of a relationship. You need to remember that I am me & you are you & there are things that I love & ; enjoy that you don’t.
There too are things you love & enjoy that I despise.
But you are you and I am me.
We don’t need each other. We want each other.
Realise the distinction.
I have my faults and I have a right to have them. They are there for a reason.
You have faults and I have a right to feel like they drive me to the brink of madness itself. But they are yours, an undeniable part of your making & they are there for a reason.
Single-hood has taught me so much about myself. Things about myself were uncovered that I myself had never ever thought were there. Ugly things. Ones I would like to, quietly, shove under the proverbial carpet. And; some phenomenal traits that I want to boast.
I got more than I had bargained for when I took on this path of self-searching & ; discovery.
My journey is by no means over. Utter happiness in a loving relationship is a reality. But for now, until I’m ready to dive, I’m happy on this little pathway.
Until further notice...
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